6/1/2023 0 Comments Give week please dont quit.![]() Stay strong, and find a friend near by to talk to and, get out and take a break for just you! ☺ you’ve got this!!! Reply No matter how bad they treat you, they wouldn’t want to know you’re hurting this way. I know I don’t know you, but, I can tell you your kids love and admire you. Keep on keepin on….day by day…hour by hour. There is not another human alive that could be your childrens Mother. They will apologize and finally realize everything that you have done for them! Never question if you should “stay alive”! YOU ARE IMPORTANT. Don’t give up, Mama! You may be at rock bottom right now, but, someday, when they are all grown and mature parents themselves it will all be worth it. The person who sacrifices her life/time/energy/sleep/sanity, for theirs. Wow Mariana!! I am so sorry to hear that your family makes you feel so terrible, that you wouldn’t want to be alive!!!! How terrible that they would be so awful to the very oerso. Want more community and a group of moms determined to find happy? That’s this page. What are you waiting for? You can do this, sweet mother. There is no price tag large enough that would ever illustrate the true value of motherhood. Do not let the world qualify your motherhood. You are the perfect mother for your children today. Don’t look at how everyone else is mothering, or what the facebook status states, or the pinterest picture of the perfect mother. Pick up the motherhood towel right now and instead tell yourself you can do this today. Those are the moments in life that you are blessed to live. Giving up on something you need so that your child can get what they need. Making dinner out of a pantry that is bare. But do you remember all the times where you have done well? Or the times when you’ve been there? Sitting up at one am rocking a toddler with a bad dream. Right now, reading these words, who is about to give of herself for her family.ĭo you realize what an amazing impact you are leaving?ĭon’t tell me about all the times you’ve messed up. Those things, while they are beautiful, they don’t really matter in the life journey. But seriously, listen to me, those things don’t make a mother. Motherhood doesn’t look like those pinterest boards full of birthday ideas with perfect fondant cakes and party favors that take three hours to make. Motherhood doesn’t look anything like I imagined when I was young. And you don’t stop.Ī wise friend of mine told me this weekend that we only fail when we quit. You can drive those kids to soccer or ballet or to school or to where ever and you will tell yourself that you sitting in the car with them matters. ![]() You can make those pbjs for lunch today and sliced apples and can actually get the straw in the juice pouch on the first time. You can look in your children’s eyes and tell them how much you love them – even though you are remembering how much they sassed back to you this morning – and you can love them unconditionally. You can pick yourself up, brush off the words that hold you back, and you can be mom today. You, and your life, your voice, your giving of self, and all of that matters. And because I’ve felt that way I’m writing today to tell you that you, right now, matter more than you might ever realize. I remember sitting in the bathroom behind the door with my head in my hands thinking that I couldn’t do this motherhood thing anymore and that I really didn’t matter or make a difference and that I would never ever catch up on laundry – which, by the way, I’ve never really caught up on. I know that sometimes you just want to throw in the towel and whisper (or scream) that you’ve had enough of all of this. I know you sit in the car and put your head on the steering wheel and the tears roll down at times. I know it feels like the weight of the world is on your shoulders and that it really doesn’t matter if the dishes are done or that no one really cares that you stayed up till 2 am folding laundry or that you are just overlooked.
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